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Establishing Your Truth
By Jelaila Starr
Written June 1997
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Are you getting overwhelmed by the all the channelors out there purporting that their information is the truth?  Are you drowning in the reams and reams of material available, struggling to determine who's telling the truth, who's of the Light, who's of the Dark, and who is Dark and masquerading as the Light?  Well, guess what?  You are not alone. 

Each day my e-mail is filled with individuals asking me if this or that Channeler is of the Light, and who can they believe, as if my opinion would make a difference.  As always, I tell them that this is something they must decide for themselves. Many times they get angry, and why? Why do they get upset when I won't give them my opinion of a particular person or their material? Why do they get mad when I won't say this or that person is good or bad? I believe it is because they, like most people, have never been taught how to do their own research to establish their truth.

So how do we do it?  How do we do the research to establish our truth and thus become unshakable?  Why have the earth systems so strongly discouraged us from using this tool of self-empowerment?  And how do we know if someone is of the Light or the Dark, and does it really matter?  These are good questions and ones to which I would like to offer an answer. I will share with you how I was taught to discern and establish my truth, not only by my guides in the Nibiruan Council, but also by my father.  Let's start with the first question.

How do I establish my truth?

Step 1.  Discern

When I hear information from another, I discern in my heart as to how I feel about it. Does it feel comfortable, and does it sit well in my heart area? If the answer is yes then I proceed to the next step.  If it does not feel right, I immediately ask myself what it is that doesn't feel good about it.  Is it that my prior research already discredits this information, or is it that it conflicts with a treasured belief system of mine?

If it is because the information is easily discredited, I will be able to prove that through at least 3 sources that I have personally researched. 

If it is the latter, I make an agreement between myself and my inner child that we will remain open to looking at it.  We agree that remaining open-minded in no way means that we have to accept it until we have cross referenced it and proven or disproved its validity.  Making this agreement keeps me from shutting down and throwing the article or book across the room in disgust.  And I have reaped the benefits of this agreement many times when the greatest morsels of truth were found hidden in material that I would have otherwise rejected as wholly false.

So often we go to seminars to listen to speakers talk of their truth, and if we resonate with it we, many times, accept it as our own. Or we read a book and do the same thing. Devin, my guide, has often told me that resonating with another's truth is merely the first step to finding and establishing our personal truth.  To stop there would leave us on shaky ground.

Step 2.  Research

In the bible there is a parable about two men.  One built his house on sand and the other on rock.  When the waters came the house built on sand was destroyed.  I feel this same parable could apply to establishing our truth.

I understand my personal truth to be the foundation on which I build my life and establish my mode of conduct and interaction with others. It is the foundation of my power.  It is unshakable.  Research is one of the main ways in which we can take back our power.  We all talk about wanting to take back our power, but for many, we have no clue of how to do it.  Research is one of the primary ways.  Why, you might ask?  It is because, when you can see it with your own eyes, you are no longer depending on someone else to establish your belief systems for you.  In other words, when you know why you know what you know, you are unshakable; you are empowered.  And empowerment comes from taking on the responsibility to establish your own truth by discerning and doing the research.

So how do you research?

    a. Ask the channel of the material for reference information. - What books, articles, tapes, etc. did they use to create their body of work.  This also applies to non-channeled material as well.  Research everything.

    b. Do the research on the reference information and compare. Compare what you already know with the new information. Does it fit together nicely with your already established truths. Does the fit feel good in your heart?

    c. Find the common story line. If enough people, who have done their research, write and speak the same thing, and it all fits together, then you can know you have found a truth and be comfortable adopting it as your own.

    d. In the case of conflicting information, if it checks out through at least 4 different valid sources, then it is time to adjust your beliefs, if indeed, you are truly determined to establish real truth.  This one may be the hardest for those who have lived their lives believing in one of the earth system's religions or any other easily discredited belief system.

On to the next question.  Why were we not taught how to establish our truth by those we were told that we could depend on to teach and enlighten us?

Like many of you, I have been searching for truth most of my life. For me it began at the age of fifteen.  When most girls were busy with boys and clothes, I was researching the doctrines of my church.  I wanted to know if what the ministers of my church were saying was true.  Needless to say I found many discrepancies. I soon came to realize that though they encouraged us to prove all things, what they really meant was prove them as long as they don't conflict with established doctrine.

Once I discovered their lies, I began to lash out in anger at the injustice of it all. I used to dream of ways to destroy them by telling as many people as I could about the truth.  But that, I learned, was not the way to do it. I only pushed those I was trying to help away from me and into the arms of those I was trying to expose.

Several years later, I began this work.  It was then that I learned what became the healing balm for my betrayed and embittered heart.  I came to understand the higher perspective and learned that it was all part of the Divine Plan for Earth. 

I learned that if we had been taught this tool of self-empowerment before now, we would have seen through the Dark's well-established lies a long time ago, and the opportunities for soul evolution on earth would have ended before their time.  I began to see that from a 9D perspective, the systems of Earth School provided an opportunity for soul growth that is unequaled anywhere in the universe, and that to end that school prematurely would rob many souls of that opportunity. 

The earth systems were meant to be established in such a way that they would be functional and dysfunctional at the same time.  The Global Elite, led by 4th dimensional reptilians and a few other assorted races, were meant to establish the systems to enslave us.  For only by giving our power away out of fear, then integrating that fear and taking back our power, would we be able to gain the highest degree of soul evolution available anywhere in the cosmos. 

Now I understand that this may come as a shock to some of you.  I ask you to take a moment and think about how we as souls evolve.  Isn't it true that we don't change until we are in enough pain to want to finally change?  And if pain is synonymous with the dark then wouldn't it make sense that we grow through the dark and into the light?  So, in answer to why we were not taught how to research as part of our regular scholastic or spiritual schooling, it is because it would have robbed us of the opportunity of emerging out of the systems on our own power.

Now for the final question.  How can you tell if a Channelor is of the Light or of the Dark?

This answer may also surprise you.  First of all we are all of the Dark and of the Light.  Every Channelor and every spirit guide has Dark and Light within them.  So to say that they are coming from one or the other is just another form of judgment and polarization.  What is important here is whether their material holds any grains of truth.  In my experience they all hold nuggets of truth, and through discernment and research you will be able to dig them out.

Now some channeled material holds more nuggets of truth than others.  This material will usually include the following:

  • Little or no judgment towards the Dark. There will be an understanding of the value of the Dark's role in soul evolution.  I have found that those Beings who hold little or no judgment are usually individuals who have been through many lifetimes and dimensions learning the lessons of integration.  They will usually be found in the dimensions of upper 5D and above.
  • How to’s for integrating instead of just talking about it.
  • A straightforward and clear delivery.

How can you tell when a Being is attempting to deceive you by masquerading as a Being of Light?  This is a good one!  I have found that their material will usually include the following:

  • Tons and tons of sugar sweet fluff.  They really load it on!
  • Lack of understanding of the Dark's role in soul evolution and, therefore judgment.
  • How to’s that either don't work or hardly work at all.  (I try them out.)
  • Confusing delivery and lengthy delivery.

Beings below 5D will usually fall into this category, but not always.  Yet, please remember that the Dark ultimately serves the Light.  These Beings who masquerade are providing a great service to us because they cause us to apply all our resources of discernment and research to figure them out.  They provide great practice.  I do not fear these Beings for I know that they or their techniques, formulations, etc. cannot hurt me.  Only by fearing them can they cause me harm.

I hope this has helped you in some way.  In closing, please remember that what I have given you is the way that I was trained to establish truth.  If you find another way that works for you, then by all means use it.  My purpose in providing this information is to share techniques with those who have not been given this training.

As we know, the graduation of Earth and its people to 5D is imminent, and in order to take part in that graduation we must become self-empowered, self-responsible.  Establishing our truth through discernment and research is one of the primary things that will determine whether we graduate.  It is a hallmark of spiritual maturity.  It is how we set ourselves free.

In service to all,
Jelaila Starr,
The Nibiruan Council

Author Info:
Jelaila Starr, author of We are the Nibiruans, The Mission Remembered and the highly acclaimed Keys of Compassion series, is an internationally known channel, teacher, and counselor. Through her lectures, workshops, and articles, Jelaila's message of compassion has touched the hearts of people around. Jelaila’s work inspires hope and understanding while providing solutions to some of today’s most pressing challenges.  

As a psychic/intuitive counselor, Jelaila works with individuals to assist them with emotional clearing, healing relationships, and DNA Recoding.  Jelaila's unique approach enables her clients to clearly discover who they are, what they came to do, and how to achieve it.  Jelaila can be reached by e-mail at:

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