Nibiruan Council DNA Recoding and Emotional Clearing Workshop Agreements
As we have learned from experience, agreements foster a sense of safety and trust in a group, and by entering into them we all can anticipate that our needs for this workshop will get met. The
following agreements were created from past participants’ workshop experiences. As a result, some of them may not make a whole lot of sense unless viewed in the context of a workshop.
Please keep in mind that agreements are renegotiable so if there is one that doesn’t work for you, let’s discuss it. Please read before you sign up
for the workshop. We will discuss them at the beginning of the workshop.
1. I agree to make and keep my agreements.
2. I agree to be supported by the facilitators and the other members of the workshop in
keeping my agreements.
3. If I break an agreement I agree to be supported in looking at what conscious/unconscious
motive exists within me that caused me to break my agreement along with who put it there.
4. I agree to support the other workshop members in keeping their agreements.
5. I agree that I will wait outside until the door opens at 9:50 am if I arrive too early
for the workshop.
6. I agree to show up on time each day and not leave until the workshop is over. I agree to take responsibility for knowing the exact starting time of the workshop on a day-to-day basis. If I am late, I agree to be cleared at the door by a facilitator before returning at the next break and to apologize to the group.
7. Regarding breaks, I agree to be back in my seat on time. If I am not, I agree to
remain outside (or if inside already, remain in the designated room) until a facilitator clears me to return. Once cleared with the facilitator, I agree to apologize to the group.
8. I agree that when we are on a particular subject and I have a question on a different
subject, to write it down and ask it at the next break or subject change.
9. I agree that it’s okay for me to leave the room for a moment
or two during the facilitator’s teaching, but not during any conversation in which I am involved, or while being confronted by another.
10. I agree to remain open to the information given in the workshop
and be responsible for getting value from the information presented.
11. I agree to speak up and ask questions when I am confused or don’t feel right
about a subject.
12. I agree to check the board each day before leaving for evening assignments and to ask
questions of the facilitators if I am not sure what is required. I agree that if I do not get my evening assignments done before the next day, to stay outside the group to complete them, be cleared
by a facilitator before returning to the group at the next break, and to apologize.
13. I agree to allow the facilitators and/or other group members to trigger my fears & emotional issues so that I may clear
them. I also agree that “being triggered” means being emotionally upset. I further agree to allow the facilitators or other group members to use their personal knowledge of my life,
relationships, etc. to deliberately trigger me.
14. I agree to remain current with my emotions and not “sweep issues under the rug” or withhold for fear of the
consequences that may come from speaking my truth.
15. When I need to express something, I agree to express myself clearly and distinctly, and to take responsibility for the other
person(s) getting the communication. If I'm receiving a communication from another, I agree to keep asking questions until I'm absolutely sure that I have received the communication
accurately.
16. I agree that when I feel that I have been disrespected or offended, to communicate that information by first asking questions
of those involved to determine if, in fact, an offense did occur.
17. I agree that when someone is venting that I will be respectful of their process. This means that I will not try to stop it by
belittling it, fixing it, or making that person wrong. Additionally, if the vent is about me, I agree that I will not step in and try to defend my position.
18. I agree that when I have a complaint to go to that person and no one else to resolve it. The only exception to this would be
if I need help getting perspective before addressing the person with whom I am upset. Additionally, I agree not to listen to complaints that I cannot resolve and to direct that person to someone
who can. Once again, the exception is when someone is asking for perspective.
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